Our Thoughts

Let me guess, you or your kid just said the words every parent dreads hearing on a slow afternoon—“I’m sooooo bored.”

Let’s be honest, owning up to our mistakes isn’t anyone’s idea of a great time. As adults, we still sometimes struggle with it. But accountability isn’t about punishment. It’s not a guilt trip or a shaming session.

All relationships go through ups and downs, that much is pretty typical, but there is a clear difference between “normal” conflict and a relationship that consistently drains you, undermines your self-worth, and/or causes emotional, mental, or even physical harm.

I understand how getting into therapy for your kids, you’re interested in working on goals right away. Although, if a client of mine doesn’t feel comfortable around me, there’s almost no use in trying to work on those goals just yet.

When the person you love and possibly have built a life with tells you they want a divorce, it can feel like the floor has collapsed beneath you. It’s a moment that can be filled with shock, heartback, and confusion, especially if you still want to save the marriage. While it may seem like the end, there are steps that you can take to approach this painful moment with clarity, care, and hope, regardless of the outcome of the marriage.

You may have noticed that kids have a tendency to struggle with big emotions such as frustration over a difficult math problem, anxiety about a social situation, or full-on meltdown mode when it’s time to leave the playground.

You may have noticed that kids have a tendency to struggle with big emotions such as frustration over a difficult math problem, anxiety about a social situation, or full-on meltdown mode when it’s time to leave the playground.

Dealing with aggressive behaviors at home can be overwhelming, time consuming, and exhausting. It can feel like you are constantly tip-toeing around your child to prevent an “explosion”. Even if you use every strategy in the book, sometimes aggressive behavior still happens.

Hitting, kicking, slapping, throwing things, breaking furniture, threatening, and swearing are just a few examples of aggressive behaviors that many children might exhibit. Often, these behaviors stem from communication difficulties, intense emotions that are hard to express, or attempts to gain attention from parents and caregivers.

If you’re reading this, I hope you’ve already read the first part of this blog in which we explore common concerns related to screen time. If you haven’t read that, I recommend heading back to that one first! Let’s talk about the common recommendations I give parents to assist with screen time.

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